#581 The first flurry of attraction
Wednesday 28th October, 2009
I am in lust, or at least the first flurry of attraction. I have made the first move on her with the offer of such temptations as a ‘nice’ drink in a ‘good bar’. Our arranged meeting is but one week off. And I am at a loss as to how to spend the time. What is the correct etiquette for our anticipated meeting? A Facebook poke seems hardly appropriate.
Also, do you have any suggestions as to how I can gauge attraction – face-to-face is always my preference – but thus far correspondence has been through the wire.
From ‘Sherlock’ looking for the Lady in White
If you are going to meet up, do it in style. Keep up the anticipatory expectancy. During the week period, both you and the Lady in White will no doubt continue with various ambiance of contact and accompanying Google’d checks for various ‘talent’.
Obviously, just as you will take the time for digital monitoring so shall she.
The usual form for such face-to-face meetings is to turn up with wit (and in my preference, tweed) for maximum charisma and character points. At the end of your meeting, then you can assess the potential mutual attraction content.
In certain circumstances, it is nice to lean in for a kiss. In others running off into the night is also beneficial. You may want to avoid getting ‘a bit squiffy’, for fear of dossing down on some old sofas, waking up and not remembering where or who you are. And never seeing the Lady in White again.Tweet